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Better Parenting |
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Playing is a serious work - Children put efforts to learn about games, understand it & then move on to next one. Select games & toys carefully. |
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Temper tantrums - They are common in all children. If they occur very frequently in a day then he might have health or adjustment problems. |
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Don't be impatient - Don't loose patience if child can't understand the toys or games you have bought. He can learn at his own speed and level only. |
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Generosity has to be learned slowly - It can't be forced at very early stage. So, don't force your child to give away his toys to others & be very kind. If you will do it, then it will hurt him. |
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Avoid violent games & toys - As guns, swords, knifes entices child to play those war games, and it is not safe at all. |
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Make first child outgoing when second one comes - Help first child to learn outdoor sports, interests etc. to overcome feelings of negligence by parents. Make him feel equally important & loved one. |
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Bad words - Don't get wild when you hear them from child they don't understand good or bad words. They only know new or old words & are very curious to use new words. Educate them & they will change. |
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Never criticize a child or pass jokes on him in public - It hurts & child will get disturbed. He wants appreciation, love & encouragement. |
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Comfort the hurt child - Help your child to overcome hurt feelings. Let him feel that it is nutural. |
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Keep sleeping time happy - Don't get angry or force the child at night as far as possible. |
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Be firm but remain very friendly with your child - Child wants friendly atmosphere to grow & feel confident. |
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Small penalties or strict warnings are okay to stop bad behavior - You don't have to scare the child but show you mean business. |
